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JUBA, South Sudan—A bloody conflict has shaken the world’s youngest country since Dec. 15 of last year, forcing some 1,216,000 people to flee their homes. About 923,000 of those are displaced within their own country. Some are with host families and others live in camps scattered around South Sudan. Women are often at the frontline of those camps because of their roles of caring for children and preparing food. Angelina and Nyajong reside only a few yards from one another now, though they were living in very different circumstances before the conflict began. Their names have been changed for security reasons.
Here are their stories:
Angelina: “Stop Killing The Women and Children”
Just a few months ago, Angelina, a regal-looking mother of five, was living a comfortable life. Her husband was a member of parliament, the family owned three Toyota Prado cars, and she didn’t want for anything.
That was before the calm of night was disrupted on Dec. 15 by the sound of her neighbor and the neighbor’s three children screaming, and shots being fired. At the end of a few minutes, she knew her neighbors were dead. “I started shaking so badly. Even now, I wake up in the middle of the night and cry, remembering those sounds,” says Angelina, 32. “Then I get up, make the sign of the cross and pray, and I ask my children pray with me that this country will return to normal.”
As her family ran from their home into the bush, she got separated from her husband. After walking for two hours that night, she and her children ended up at one of the United Nation’s Mission military bases, which quickly became a camp for those who fled their homes. They became one of its first residents. What happened to her husband? She still doesn’t know.
“I honestly don’t know how to find him. I haven’t told any of the officials here who I am, who my husband is,” she says. When pressed as to why, she looks off in the distance and then directly at her questioner. “I don’t want to hear that he is dead. I don’t want to ask and get bad news. I just keep praying to God, and hoping that he will find us.”
The shelter she shares with her children has a better roof, thicker and more secured against rain and wind, than most around her. But she says she has two main worries about her children, who range in ages from 14 to 2½ years old. “It is not the food—it is not what my children are used to, but they will eat it,” she says. “It is that we have no mattresses for them for sleeping, and besides that, we have no mosquito nets, so I worry about malaria.”
Asked if she could give any message to the warring sides of the conflict that has disrupted her life and the life of her country, she thought a moment. “I would tell them if they must fight, fight among themselves,” she said. “But stop, stop killing the women and children.”
Nyajong: “Burning Our Neighbors Alive”
Nyajong, who also gives her age as 32, is pregnant and due to deliver in July, is carrying on her head wooden poles to try build a new shelter for her family when I meet her. Right now she, her husband and their four children, ranging in ages from 10 years to one and a half, share a shelter measuring about six feet by ten feet with four other adults.
Like Angelina, Nyajong and her family fled their home on the night of Dec. 15. “They were burning our neighbors alive. I heard it and saw it,” she says. “I knew they were on their way to us.”
Her economic circumstances were far different from Nyalok’s. Her husband had been unemployed for recent memory, and the family survived through subsistence farming.
Her primary complaints are two. First, that the camp is so congested that there is no detached place for cooking. To demonstrate, she lifts up her youngest child, a boy named Terit, who wears a makeshift bandage wrapped around his belly. “He got burned by hot water,” she said. The second issue is that there is no place to get milk for her children.
Though there is a medical clinic, she expects to give birth in the camp itself and that doesn’t worry her. What does concern her, and why she wants a separate shelter for her family, is that she can’t imagine fitting an infant into the tiny space they share now. “Where is the baby even going to sleep in this crowded room?” she asks.
Asked when she expects to return home, she says it is beyond her control. “They talk, we wait,” she says of the peace negotiations. “I hope they talk faster.”
Concern Worldwide is working with those affected by the conflict in South Sudan, distributing emergency food and household supplies, providing water, sanitation and hygiene facilities, and treating malnutrition in young children. Read more about our response here
